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I have five grandchildren. The day after each was born I wrote them a letter. From then on I write each of them a different letter on the first of every month. Does anyone write letters for their Grandchildren to read when they are older?

smiles
12/14/07 @ 09:10 PM

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Because of some serious legal circumstances and financial problems, my de facto grandson, (GF's daughter's son), lived with us for a good part of the time he was between the ages of one and three. I actually wrote a story about the situation as it unfolded, and there's a copy put away for him to read when he's old enough to understand it.

Of course we won't know if "the story" ultimately has a happy ending or not until long after that time, but at least he'll learn how, when times were tough, he had a family who came together, orked hard and sacrificed for his sake.

Hopefully that will be worth more than anything else I'll be able to leave for him?

srhcb
12/15/07 @ 11:11 AM

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srhcb
I certainly hope it turns out well for him. I'm sure the fact that you left him a record showing you cared gives you some peace of mind.
Smiles
smiles
12/17/07 @ 08:05 PM

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I'm sure it will give him something to think about at least, God bless you all. Wishing You A Merry Christmas, and A Happy New Year. Troy
twc48us
12/22/07 @ 11:07 AM

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Troy;
I am also quite new at this computer business. Gaining a friend
this early in the game I would certainly consider a plus. Bob
smiles
12/27/07 @ 03:42 PM

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I think that is a wonderful idea. Your grandchildren will have something to cherish when they are older. I don't write letters but I do include notes in their cards and I also take pictures constantly at all family functions. I put photo journals together and have recently started having them bound into books. I have a heritage album with my parents from the early 1900's up to my sister's and my early childhood which will be passed down through our children.
jbtinkers
12/30/07 @ 04:48 AM

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I think it's great what you are doing. I also keep an album recording all the trips they take with Nana & pop pop, I caption each picture to
assist them in understanding what exactly was going on at that par-
ticular time in thier life.
smiles
01/01/08 @ 01:06 PM

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I think what you do is lovely.In this high tech age,the simple art of writing a special letter to your precious gandchildren is wonderful .I have kept a journal for each of my 4 lovebugs with my thoughts on their birth and the special times I've had with each of them.In it I have pictures too(Birthdays,trips etc).They will all get their journals when they are a bit older.Of course,our first grandchilds' journal is far longer than our newest angel but I love doing this.It is something my Mother did when her chidren were born.Keeping on the tradition means a great deal.Diane a.k.a. smzecf7.
smzecfc7
01/12/08 @ 08:50 PM

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Diane;
I'm sure years from now your children and grandchildren will enjoy the journals you have provided. Plus it's fun doing isn't it.
Bob
smiles
01/14/08 @ 09:41 AM

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Love what you are doing Bob Smiles :o)
I'm trying to put together a box for each of our grandchildren. Hope to write each an annual letter for the box plus fill each with special or meaningful things to that child....
Not sure when I will give each his/her box because I want it to be cherished .
Your request reminds me that I must get moving on the four boxes

Another thing I have done is to fill out a, 'Grandmother Remember's" book ( think there may be Grandad Remembers books too), for one family. Will do it for our other son's children down the road.
The book is meant to be filled out for individual children but when there is many of them, I feel they can share the book and have some special pages in it of their own, (copied from the book).

Cathern

Cathern
01/19/08 @ 08:35 AM

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I'm writing a story of my life for my children and grands. I have 10 grands and I think it is a little late to try to make individual books or boxes of memorable things for them. I have never sorted all my pictures. I really should have over the years but when you have 5 kids growing up and doing all the necessary things and also try to do a few things you really "want" to do, you just don't take the time to sort pictures and put them into an album. Well at least I didn't want to. After I started making quilts I did keep track of them and tried to make an album. One of my daughters critisized me for doing that and not making an album of family pictures. Oh I really got away from the subject. So what it boils down to is if hyou can and want to save things for your grands do it. If you don't then don't. And the way I have decide tohandle it is to write mylifestor so they will know what my life was like growing up in the middle of the 20th century compared to theirs. purplelady

purplelady
01/19/08 @ 03:06 PM

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What a WONDERFUL idea! I had not thought of that...thank you!!
EllaBlue
EllaBlue
01/20/08 @ 04:50 PM

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I to have thought about writing each of my 10 grandchildren letters and include special projects they have made. I have 2 children divorced and of course mothers got custody due to state regulations for children under 5. My boys have their children more than their moms and of course grandma sees they alot and comforts their heartaches and tries to make their hard times bearable. I would love to let them all know how great their fathers have been to and for them and the sacrafices they have done for them. I know their mothers have said bad and hurtful things to the children and I don't want to repeat that by badmouthing her. I want to let them know dad didn't leave them mom just found someone new but am having a hard time how to write it to them or even answer their questions. Any Suggestions? I commend you all who can dedicate your time for your grandchildren and their future hoping I can also fit it all in between the ups and downs.
kj2300
01/20/08 @ 05:05 PM

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kj2300
You asked for a suggestion on how to start. ........the following is what i would do.
Start from the beginning- The day their Father was born. How you felt then.The things you remember that gave you smiles that he said or did. Also those times when his actions pushed your heart into your
throat.
Try yo put some humor into the letters.
Write a series of letters dating the episodes your recording as best you can.
Bring the letters right up to the present. Tell them how their Father responded to their birth. The relationship you have witnessed with them and their Dad.
Regardless of how you perceive the situation between their Mom &
Dad. I would not touch it with a ten-foot pole.
I would think that if you make thr letters Warm & Positive your stature
in the family should be much enhanced.
GO TO IT Smiles
smiles
01/21/08 @ 07:05 PM

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I havent been writing letters although I do keep in touch with my now two year old granddaughter by phone and my blog. I think its a great idea though and think i will start sending her a note with pics or a coloring page on a regular basis. I sure wish we were not separated by so many miles.
ChristianMeMe
02/18/08 @ 10:07 AM

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